I was reading around some of my favorite places this morning, and i came across this father who blogged about his alone time with his baby this past wkd. his wife had a business wkd to attend. i know alot of people with children and alot of stay at home moms.. what bugs me the most is when someone says i have to ask my husband to babysit for me if i want to go out or go somewhere. and my brain explodes everytime i hear that sentence. babysit? how can u babysit your own kids??? i never understood that. so as i was reading i came across this exact situation. and i will quote it:
""All in all We had a great weekend together except for one annoying moment. On the way out of the restaurant a woman smiled at me and said, “Babysitting tonight, aye?” People made this comment to me before and it always rubbed me the wrong way, as if fathers were nothing more than fill-ins for mothers. This time I replied:
“Not babysitting. Just parenting.” ""
I was like YES!!! someone who finally gets it!!!!! When mothers have their children nothings ever said, but you see fathers and its like oh hes babysitting.. oh that just burns my biscuits. lol. FATHERS DO NOT BABYSIT THERE OWN CHILDREN. I have never in my life "asked" my hubby to "babysit" his kids. i never "ask" him to go anywhere, i just go, if the kids are here there just here, i dont ask him anything because there HIS KIDS. just the same as he doesnt ask me to go to work, or he doesnt ask me when he goes to the store.
I know this is an out of ordinary from my usual blogs, but i just had to post it, i was very proud of this father, he loves his child and he gets it!!!!
Now, i promise that birthday haul is coming soon!!
